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Anal Sex A New World of Pleasure
“Two things are infinite: the universe and human desire, but I’m not sure about the universe.”
Albert Einstein already said this. Well, “almost” – in the original text, Einstein was actually lamenting the stupidity of mankind. But this doesn’t mean that the statement itself is wrong, because just like the universe, our sexual desires also have almost infinite space waiting to be discovered. The following saying applies: Where the sun doesn’t shine is the most fascinating. The dark underbelly holds a special appeal for many people: 38% of respondents to the AMORELIE Sex Report 2025 said that anal sex is one of their (secret) sexual desires*. But many people dare not act on their secret fantasies for fear of pain, bad smells or even more obvious surprises that might be revealed.
If you are also interested in exploring this new world of pleasure but are still unsure, we have good news for you: it’s not rocket science! You can enjoy anal sex at your own pace and in a fun way – in the true sense of the word! If you want to try something new, our anal sex ideas are perfect for you, but they also have ideas for more experienced anal sex lovers who are looking for variety. Get inspired by our anal sex ideas and get ready for a blast!
Important: Whether anal (raw) is new territory for you or you’re an anal pro, don’t explore anal sex with your bae without permission. Ask for permission beforehand, and take “no” for an answer.
Anal Sex: Solo Missions Are More Fun
Do you want to experience anal sex, but you’re not sure if and how you’d like it? Then try masturbating. Especially if you’re new to anal sex, you can get used to the new sensations alone in your own safe space. You can start by using the flexibility of your fingers to massage your anus while masturbating and gently inserting a finger. If you like this and want more, you can take the next step to use a butt plug and experience a very special tingling sensation.
But why does a finger or toy inserted in your butt make your solo performances even more exciting? The anal area is particularly sensitive because many nerve endings are concentrated there. That’s why backdoor play feels so good for many people. But that’s not the only reason anal sex is so pleasurable: it also puts pressure on the G-spot and the inside of the clitoris or prostate. A butt plug can add new pleasures to your solo life. If you’ve already thoroughly explored the dark side of the moon, try using an anal vibrator to get more “bzzz” in solo play. Or, in addition to a butt plug, you can also use a dildo for vaginal penetration and enjoy the satisfaction of double penetration.
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Would you like to give your babe a heavenly oral sex experience? Well, let’s play with not only your mouth, but also your fingers! First, you can caress or gently press your partner’s testicles with your hands during oral sex, or let your fingers slowly slide in and out of the vagina while pleasing your babe with your tongue. When you notice that your partner is getting more and more excited and ready to take off, slowly move your fingers back. Gently press the perineum with your thumb while slowly circling your babe’s anus with your index finger – this feels especially good for people with penises, as it massages the prostate. If your babe feels comfortable, you can carefully insert a finger (well-moistened with lubricant, of course).
Important: What’s in the back remains there. Be careful not to insert your fingers into the vagina again immediately – this can cause infection. Thorough cleaning (even with toys!) is a must every time you change tracks.
Anal Sex: Hot and Cold Temperature Play
Many butt plugs are made of metal or glass. On the one hand, there are practical reasons for this, as these smooth surfaces are particularly easy to insert and clean. But these materials also have another hot (or cold) advantage: they absorb heat and cold quickly and are therefore ideal for temperature play. Playing with a warmed butt plug is sexy and relaxing. It makes it easier to dock or pick up the toy. If you prefer more stimulation, try using cooling toys. The cool tingling sensation on the sensitive skin around the anus is very exciting.
To build tension during temperature play, it is important not to go straight to the point: play with various sensitive areas such as nipples, thighs or abdomen with the toy, slide slowly from hot spot to hot spot, take short breaks, play with tension. This way, you will build up anticipation and excitement before you approach a planetary (original) anus with the toy.
If you want to feel some warmth, it is better to dip the butt plug in warm water beforehand. If your motto is “keep it cool (in the anus),” then you can store it in the freezer beforehand. The important thing is: less is more – if you fly too close to the sun, you will get burned – if you land on a frozen planet without brakes, you will get frostbite. Never overheat or overcool the toy, but heat or cool it gradually until it reaches a comfortable temperature.
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Bootylicious Rimjobs: Flavored Lube
Anal play with the tongue (also known as “rimming” or “rimming”) is something for true connoisseurs. Soft lips and tongue feel extra pleasurable and gentle at the highly sensitive rear entrance. Saliva also provides essential moisture. To ensure that rimming is equally comfortable and safe for everyone involved, hygiene is essential. If you’re still nervous about the possible smell or taste, you can use it safely by using a flavored lubricant – this will turn rimming into a real taste sensation. Strawberry, vanilla, peach, caramel… there are so many delicious lubricants that you’ll want to use them all.
But how can you best set up your sexy dessert buffet? Any position that allows easy access to the anus and buttocks is suitable for anal sex. For example, your babe can squat on your face, kneel in front of you in doggy style, or bend over something like a table with legs spread. Tongue play becomes more intense if you caress the vulva or the penis and testicles with your hands. Hmm, do you have an appetite? You can find more tips in our guide to the big Anlingus.
But First: Play, Caress, And Spank
In the world of anal pleasure, there’s a lot more to explore than just the anus itself. Also pay attention to his orbit, that is, the buttocks or the back of the thighs. You can knead it, caress it, massage it, kiss it… or even give it a teasing nibble while nibbling on your babe’s buttocks. You can also gently start rimming or other anal play by slowly moving your mouth from the buttocks to the anus. But the back part is also great for some kinky play. How about a spanking game, for example? To do this, you need to bend your babe over your knees so that you have free access to her back, and then you alternate between loving caresses and firm slaps.
Teledildonics: Pleasure Without Visual Contact
Come on in for some backdoor fun! With remote-controlled toys, your anal play becomes even more exciting, because you can enjoy them quietly and secretly in public. The special thing: No one in your circle suspects this little secret that causes slight vibrations in your background. With remote-controlled anal toys, even a short walk, shopping or bus ride suddenly becomes an erotic highlight of the day. Do you want more excitement? Then hand over the control to your babe and let yourself go into new territory on a dinner date or a trip to the cinema. Of course, you don’t have to use these remote-controlled toys in public, because they also allow you to enjoy pampering moments in the safe space of your home, whether you want to indulge your babe or go on anal adventures alone.
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Whatever type of play you choose, there are a few things you should definitely do to ensure your intergalactic adventure is a complete success. First and foremost, patience and lubrication are your best friends for easy anal sex.
Take your time, take your time, and give your body (and mind!) a chance to relax. A relaxed atmosphere and good preparation will help you enjoy the thrill of anal sex effortlessly – especially when you and your bae head to the dark side of the moon.
What helps? Showering thoroughly and cleaning your anal area before play is a basic requirement. Depending on how hairy you are, you can also trim or shave it – but it’s not necessary. More hair doesn’t necessarily mean worse hygiene. But if you have thick pubic hair, a little trimming can make anal sex more comfortable for your babe.
If you want to feel more secure, anal douches can help – especially if you’re worried about something unexpected that might happen during play. It’s best to plan your meals before anal sex. Avoid particularly gas-producing or spicy foods before anal sex. Chili or spicy anal sex – it’s up to you to decide what’s on the menu.
All of this may sound like a lot of preparation – but it’s definitely worth it. Spontaneous anal sex may sound tempting in the imagination, but in reality many people experience blue – or rather brown – wonders. Especially if you’re not yet familiar with the vast scope of anal pleasure, it’s worth starting with small steps: a small step for you, a big step for your pleasure!
